Western society entered a phase of sexual repression during the 19th century in the Victorian era – publicly discussing sex was forbidden. Women were always wrapped in colorful fabrics that concealed their bodies, and everyday objects that appeared phallic were covered or removed.
Fortunately, we’ve come a long way from the oppressive days of the Victorian era and are now able to fully explore our sexuality and openly discuss it. We can find all the information at our fingertips on the Internet and arrange meetings with the convenience of a dating app. Most importantly, we can even enjoy an erotic and sensual massage without worrying about being judged by others.
Sometimes, the taboo still lingers around the subject, so here are three ways to break the taboo regarding erotic massages.
Talk with your friends
Perhaps some of your friends might feel a bit uneasy about the idea of receiving an erotic massage, but it’s important to have a conversation with them about this topic. Ask why they’re feeling uncomfortable and try to understand their perspective. If they’re also interested in getting a massage, research together and call to find out which massage parlors offer the best services that cater to your needs and expectations.
Talk with your partner
Being transparent and honest is crucial in a relationship. Talk to your partner about your desire to receive an erotic massage and see if he/she is comfortable with the idea. Discuss the topic further and describe the health benefits, including improved circulation, muscle relaxation, and a boost to the immune system. And most importantly, show how an erotic massage can add excitement to your relationship! Who knows, you might even consider a couples’ massage or a voyeur massage together?
Don't be ashamed
If you’re interested in receiving an erotic massage but still feel a bit embarrassed, you just need to overcome these irrational thoughts and trust in the experience. Exploring our sexuality is an innate human right; so don’t deny yourself this fantasy. You need to start by researching the best place to receive your first sensual massage. At RJ Massagem, you will be attended to by our qualified team, who will address all your doubts and assist you with your concerns and needs.